r/cats 16h ago

Advice I’m about to die, and I’m not sure what to do about my cat.

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He’s very cute and sweet to me. However, he is a feral cat that I got from the woods. He doesn’t respond to anyone but me. He needs to be able to go outside and play in the woods. To be frank, he doesn’t even want to be touched by anyone but me. I can’t put him into a shelter because nobody will adopt him. And he wouldn’t understand that. I’m afraid he would just be put to death. He’s only 10 years old. I don’t know what to do. The doctor says I have about six months to live. I wish I didn’t have to leave him behind. His name is Boggles.

No one can adopt him. He wouldn’t understand that or respond to it.

I have no other family but him. It breaks my heart to think that his only owner would leave him suddenly.

This is not an adoption request. He doesn’t like other cats. He doesn’t like other people. He doesn’t like children. He doesn’t like dogs. He doesn’t like anybody but me. He’s mean to everyone except me. That made me feel special until I got my diagnosis. To everyone else he’s just a mean, weird cat. But to me, when we are sleeping next to each other, he’s my buddy. I’m worried what will happen when I’m not there to take care of him.

Only two things I can think about is to anesthetize him prematurely before I die, or just let him loose into the woods and hope he makes his way.

Just writing this is breaking my heart.

Please advise.

r/cats 23d ago

Advice How do I stop this? She does this all day

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My door has so many scratch marks. Help😭

r/cats 29d ago

Advice Why do cats do this?

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Stumbled upon this picture and it got me thinking. Some housecats also do this sometimes. What is the reason or purpose?

r/cats 25d ago

Advice came home and my cats feet are yellow?

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i came home today and kenny’s feet are yellow just his front ones. i checked the house for any markers, paints or dyes and even yellow flower but there is nothing. Why are his feet yellow what

r/cats Feb 09 '26

Advice my nannan died, we dont know what to do with her cat

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i’m 15 years old, and i’m living with my single mother in my nannan’s house after she died. we’d been living with her before her death anyway. she has a black cat called molly, jumpy and skittish at every single movement of anyone she doesn’t trust or know. She was took in by my nannan as a stray, already neutered so it was assumed that she’d been abused in a past home. Molly came with another stray, a male that was extremely old with death at his door. my nannan fed both of them as they visited and fetched the travelling vets to handle the stray’s body and got it cremated when he inevitably died in her back garden. she really cared for these animals and took Molly in properly once her companion died.

Me and my mum moved in to my nannan’s house once she got diagnosed with terminal cancer to take care of her. I got used to Molly, moving slowly around her and petting her gently. Now i have to close my door every night and morning, because she’ll be so needy to sleep beside me that it’ll keep me awake, opening the door every morning to see her running downstairs and drooling on me when i pet her.

Anyway, my nannan died on sunday morning. we have plenty of time — weeks, even, to sort things out, but i’m too young to comprehend most of this legal stuff. thankfully my mum has friends to help her with it. my mum brought up the cat and what we’re doing with her and i’m stressed. the idea of her not being with me now that nannan is gone is depressing, i feel like the only person in this household who actually understands this cat. before you say anything, my mum isn’t really understanding. sympathetic, maybe, but she doesn’t care for the cat much and calls her strange and weird for being jumpy.

we have a couple options apparently

  1. shelter (i strongly disagree to this, she’s a black cat that isn’t remotely cuddly, if she isn’t adopted within a time frame she’s put down i believe? it just sounds too lonely)

  2. take her to my mother’s house (i somewhat disagree and so does my mum. we plan on adopting a kitten and she isn’t friendly to other cats, unless the unexpected occurs and she becomes maternal over the kitten? doubtful)

  3. take her to my dad’s house (my parents are split up. my dad lives up north alone in a small house where i spend the week when im not with my mum. i think this would be the best for Molly, as it would be quiet, and when i’m not at his house she has a spare quiet bedroom — mine — to spend the day in since she already spends most of her days trying to sleep on my mother’s pillow, where she’s obviously bothered a lot as we’ve been busy recently. My only concern is that my dad isn’t a cat person, although he is a dog person, so he can handle pets well. there is the stereotype of cat-hating dads having cats grow on them though!! i have hope that he’ll get on well with a quiet cat since he’s quiet himself.)

  4. anything else, say somebody we know pops up offering to take her in.

i’m just concerned. i’m too young to sort this out myself, i only have my own judgement to stir up an idea for my mum, who only knows that Molly is a weird cat that apparently has mental issues or something? i’d say she’s positively fine, she just finds it harder to trust people. can somebody who actually has experience in this give me advice? 😞

r/cats 3d ago

Advice Cats teeth pushing out/getting longer?

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I noticed my cats teeth seemed to be “growing” or getting longer in the last year (she’s 5) and mentioned it to the vet. Vet thinks it’s alveolar osteitis and recommends extraction. Does anyone have experience with this and is it something that should be done ASAP? She doesn’t have any issues eating thankfully.

r/cats Jan 28 '26

Advice Why does my cat do this?

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She loves to put a toy in her bowl. If I take it out, she returns it when I'm not paying attention. Is this just an adorable idiosyncrasy or am I doing something wrong? Thanks.

r/cats 16d ago

Advice Why does my cat do this instead of jumping on the bed?

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r/cats Jan 12 '26

Advice Odd question, but how do I get my cat to stop playing the piano? It’s diving me crazy, especially at night

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I’ll admit that it was very cute and entertaining at first, but at this point, oh my god. She jump scares me multiple times a day by slamming on keys, and wakes me up periodically with her bad music skills. Not to mention how jarring and unpleasant it is when I’m trying to watch a movie. Or awkward to explain when I’m on the phone.

Usually, she only plays them when getting on and off the piano, but sometimes she just hits them for fun, it seems like. There’s no piano cover, nothing I’ve thought of that I can put on there that she won’t knock off, and the aluminum foil thing doesn’t work on her.

I don’t mind that the piano is her favorite spot to lay, but how do I get her to use the empty space on the side of the keys, or jump up from the side entirely? Pushing in the stool did not work either.

r/cats Jan 29 '26

Advice Cat stuck outside my home on a telephone poll, and northwest energy of Montana wont go and get him

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Hes been up there going on three days, I cant imagine he has much longer. The power company northwest energy said they would only get him if it was my cat.

Maybe you guys have suggestions what I can do?

r/cats 19d ago

Advice First time kitten owner. Am I meant to step in or is this okay?

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r/cats Jan 17 '26

Advice How to ask owners if I can adopt their cat

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A year ago I found a ragdoll cat outside with no collar or ID, I took her in for the night assuming a ragdoll cat shouldn’t be outside and she escaped so I could take her to the vet to check for a chip. I live in a pretty dangerous part of town where ally cats are commonly found deceased or get stolen a lot and I didn’t want someone’s pet to get hurt.

She was chipped and the vet told me the owner said she’s an outdoor cat and gets depressed being indoors. I left it and assumed I’d woudlnt see her much.

Turns out she’s my across the street neighbours cat, and started coming by anytime I came home or she heard me outside. She’d obtained a collar since her trip to the vet (covering so you can’t see info) and I’d hangout with her outside and give her some pets (this cat is incredibly friendly and went belly up for me the night I took her in), she would come to me with burrs covering her fur and for the first little while I left it assuming the owners would cut it out but weeks would go by and the burr mats would get worse so I started cutting them out for her. I would also bring a bowl of water out for her and she would chug that down.

Now it’s winter time, temps can get to about -15c even dropping into -30s during a cold snap. I live in a basement suit so my window is on the ground level, somehow from the first visit she had in my plc she learned this window was mine and will now show up outside of it and meow to get inside during cold temps. I’ve let her stay in my house a few times now when it’s incredibly cold because it seems like she’s desperate to get into somewhere warm.

Now obviously this means she’s learned the window is a means of entry to my plc, and frequently comes over in search of water / warmth or grooming troubles. She dosnt strike me as an outdoor cat as everytime she’s with me she hates going outside and typically I will put her outside just for her to walk back around to meow at my window (there’s also 4 ground level windows and she will go to everyone to check where I am I’ve seen her paw prints in the snow)

I don’t want to take someone’s pet, especially one as affectionate as her but I’ve bonded with her as it seems I’m the only one paying attention to her needs as an outdoor cat (again this is a ragdoll so you can image the stuff that gets caught in her fur). I would love to adopt her but I don’t know how to go about talking to the owners, any advice or insight would be appreciated.

I just want what’s best for her, if that’s with her family or me it dosnt matter I just want her to be somewhere loved and safe!

r/cats Jan 01 '26

Advice Cat hasn't left this spot between my legs for almost an hour. He's not usually this affectionate. Is this normal?

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He's getting very affectionate all of a sudden and it worries me bc he's usually a lil bitch 😭😭 His food bowl is filled and he has water and his litterbox is clean. Should I be worried?

r/cats 21d ago

Advice How often do you bathe your cat?

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I’ve had my Mochi since July and I still haven’t given him a bath 😅 he doesn’t smell and never really feels dirty either

I know that cats are usually good at cleaning themselves, but I keep seeing mixed opinions online. Some people say they never bathe them, others say every few months, and now I’m just curious what’s actually normal.

r/cats 17d ago

Advice Roommate moved in a few days ago with a cat. What does it mean when she keeps pressing into my hand like this whenever I let her sniff it?

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r/cats Jan 06 '26

Advice Does anyone know what does this mean when a stray cat does this?

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This stray cat always approaches every morning when I walk to work rubbing his head on both my legs and then ends up just laying on their back like this 😅. I dont mind it but since I have never interacted with a cat before throughout my whole life so Im inexperienced sorry. I basically just let the cat do its thing on me. Any help much appreciated

r/cats Dec 13 '25

Advice Need help discouraging cats from hanging out on a ledge

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I have two wonderful cats who love to lounge. I also have a banister in my home that goes around a staircase, with a ~15 foot drop from the top. My cats like to jump on top of the half wall, and each of them has fallen from the top once (that I know of). It didn't seem to injure either of them, but I obviously want to prevent them from potentially falling and getting hurt if possible.

I put up a sort of plastic mesh net to try to catch them if they fell off of the rail, but inevitably, now they've decided it's a nice hammock to lay in.

How can I discourage them or prevent them from going anywhere near this ledge? I'll take behavioral advice or any ideas for some kind of structure I can put up to block them.

r/cats 18d ago

Advice Should I stop her from chilling here?

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It’s literally her favourite spot, but I am worried about fall damage if she loses her balance.

Is this safe for a cat or should I sprinkle something to deter her away?

r/cats Jan 04 '26

Advice Newly adopted cat peed on couch (first time cat owner)

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Hi! I adopted the most evil cat in the shelter, as staff described, despite being encouraged to look at friendlier cats. Something about him I just couldn’t not give him a chance. I brought him home and set him up in an empty bedroom I have. He was extremely petrified and wanted nothing to do with me so i just let him be to decompress. Unfortunately, the same night, he managed to escape and go to my living room and pee on my couch. he then disappeared for 12 hours until he came out to eat food I set out. He’s now back in the bedroom. Can I attribute the couch peeing to his fearfulness and stress from the shelter/new home? Or should I be worried that this will continue after he hopefully decompresses and I let him access the rest of the house. Any and all advice appreciated!

r/cats Dec 03 '25

Advice Do cats fart?

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I mean, yeah obviously they do. But I've had 2 cats for the last 6 years and I've NEVER heard them fart. The only time I've smelt my cat farting was when I hugged one of them and she tried to back off with all her might by pushing her hind legs against my arms (I let her go after smelling the fart, obviously). So... Have you ever heard your cat fart?

r/cats Nov 12 '25

Advice anyone sure why my cats do this? they’re both boys

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what is up with these guys they’ve been brothers since 2018 lol

r/cats Jan 31 '26

Advice Please, I need a scientific explanation for this

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Both of my boys do this with their water fountain, and I’ve seen plenty of videos of other people’s cats doing it too.

Why? But I ask again: WHY? I need an answer so I can sleep at night.

r/cats 12d ago

Advice Need help, found in the middle of the street surrounded by some dogs

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How do i feed it and take care of it

Edit 1: went to couple vets ,called more , messaged even more

Every single mother fucker took one look and said "da balady" , which for all you people who dont live in a fuck ass country, it basically means "not exotic" i fucjing hate these fuckers, but can i fucking expect

Welcome to fucking egypt a country where people's life is cheap and animals are cheaper

Fuckers all of them. Om el donya but not to beings living in it. Pieces of fucking shit all of it

Ill try taking care of it

Made 4 make shift heaters for the cat made of rice in socks

Bought a baby bottle and am trying to feed it but the little guy is resisting alot, i am trying my best to make suckle, but the little guy doesnt like it, he should be hungry, was able to feed it abit of food hope fully ill get him to eat more

Btw the guy eho sold me the bottle tried scamming me, another reason to love egypt i guess <3

Edit 2: lads i need some kitten replacement recpies for long term, i know it isnt ideal, but buying the commercial kind is too expensive. So if anyone has a long tern DIY recipe please tell

UPDATE 1: the cat aurvived the first night and i ordered a heating pad for it, it is water based but should last around 4 hours if it isjt a scam

Feeding is still annpying espicially every 3 hours abd waking up in the night is a shock to my body, and add ramadan, on a positive note the cat pooped well very well, it wasnt diahrea, but ill research whether or not its proper poop when i finsish my college 9 hours?

r/cats Oct 06 '25

Advice Abandoned bobcat kitten on my porch.

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This cute little mf just showed up this morning, being surprisingly chill. It let me sit next to it and pet it. At some point, it showed me it's belly and started to purr. Did this thing just imprint on me lol? I know you can’t fully domesticate Bobcats, but they are just acting very sweet.

Wtf should I do lmao?

r/cats Feb 08 '26

Advice Is She Pregnant??

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This is Aura🩶, she’s a Neighborhood Cat that I just met days ago. Me and my girlfriend are new to the considering taking her in (after shots and check up ofc) she finally came into our place for the first time today.

There is a noticeable “bulge” in her stomach. I can’t tell if she’s pregnant or not because I cannot touch it due to her being a little skeptical of me (fair enough)

I’ve attached photos of her stomach hoping someone on here could help try to identify the cause. She’s a stray so most likely could be pregnancy. I looked it up and it says it could be a “primordial pouch” but I’m starting to doubt that. Any help is appreciated! Thank you 🙏🏽